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The Ruins of Us by Keija Parssinen

Release date: 2012 / 352 pages

Synopsis (from Amazon): More than two decades after moving to Saudi Arabia and marrying powerful Abdullah Baylani, American-born Rosalie learns that her husband has taken a second wife. That discovery plunges their family into chaos as Rosalie grapples with leaving Saudi Arabia, her life, and her family behind. Meanwhile, Abdullah and Rosalie’s consuming personal entanglements blind them to the crisis approaching their sixteen-year-old son, Faisal, whose deepening resentment toward their lifestyle has led to his involvement with a controversial sheikh. When Faisal makes a choice that could destroy everything his embattled family holds dear, all must confront difficult truths as they fight to preserve what remains of their world.

Review: What a fortuitous start to my reading year — first I enjoyed The Art of Fielding (review coming next Sunday) about the world of boys becoming men, caring too much about the glorious but insubstantial world of baseball — and then followed that with another debut novel about another world of men, in Saudi Arabia, caring too little about what is most important: love and validation.

I was drawn to The Ruins of Us due to a friendship with a woman from Texas who spent part of her childhood on an American oil base in Saudia Arabia.  She has often spoken with deep longing about returning to this country — which I cannot fathom as an American woman who cannot unlock the mysteries of a culture who imprison others due to that which they cannot control — gender.  I have often wondered how my friend, a fiesty independent sprite who always speaks her mind and swears like a sailor, could even entertain the thought of bringing her daughter into The Kingdom.  So, when I saw that Keija Parssinen had spent 12 years of her childhood as my friend had, I was intrigued.

The Ruins of Us is luminous, terrifying, beautiful, and entertaining.  Parssinen has somehow embraced and channeled the contradictions of Saudi Arabia into a gripping tale of suspense that is impossible to put aside. The protagonist, Rosalie, is a strong-willed Texan who falls in love with Abdullah while both attend college in Texas, eventually returning to Saudi Arabia as his wife, and starting a family.  Rosalie had spent part of her childhood in Saudi Arabia and had missed it deeply after returning to the States, so marrying a Saudi Arabian felt like going home.

The events of the novel unfold many years later, when Rosalie discovers that her beloved husband secretly married a Palestinian woman two years ago, and who now lives down the street.  While this discovery propels the early events, the heart of this novel is about the universal loss of betrayed love.  Abdullah’s act, legal in The Kingdom, sets up a chain of events involving the entire family and forces them to confront what happens when a son is left without a role model in a country seething with feverish contradictions.

Each character is fully realized and sympathetic and the tempestuous backdrop of Saudi Arabia, a country that allows few options for women and only narrowly-defined ones for men, lends an urgency and sense of foreboding that is palpable.  Parssinen’s own love for this country keeps the male characters from becoming two-dimensional and her writing is lovely, too — bringing to life the harsh, relentless beauty of the desert.

I strongly recommend this novel to book clubs — so many thematic points for discussion!  I’m afraid I cannot give away my copy this time — I already did!

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Monday, January 23rd: Book Club Classics!

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Thursday, January 26th: Peeking Between the Pages

Tuesday, January 31st: Col Reads

Wednesday, February 1st: The House of the Seven Tails

Thursday, February 2nd: Raging Bibliomania

Monday, February 6th: Library of Clean Reads

Tuesday, February 7th: Man of La Book

Wednesday, February 8th: 2 Kids and Tired Book Reviews

The Other Wes Moore: One Name, Two Fates by Wes Moore

Release date: 2011 / 372  pages

Synopsis (from Amazon.com): Two kids named Wes Moore were born blocks apart within a year of each other. Both grew up fatherless in similar Baltimore neighborhoods and had difficult childhoods; both hung out on street corners with their crews; both ran into trouble with the police. How, then, did one grow up to be a Rhodes Scholar, decorated veteran, White House Fellow, and business leader, while the other ended up a convicted murderer serving a life sentence? Wes Moore, the author of this fascinating book, sets out to answer this profound question. In alternating narratives that take readers from heart-wrenching losses to moments of surprising redemption, The Other Wes Moore tells the story of a generation of boys trying to find their way in a hostile world.

Review: Sometimes the books I recommend are great reads, but not necessarily great for book club discussion.  Happily, The Other Wes Moore is both.

I saw the author on Oprah and was fascinated by the story of two strangers — contemporaries who share the same name, hometown, and single mother upbringing — who’s lives turned out vastly different: one Wes Moore became a Rhodes scholar and spoke at the Democratic convention while the other will spend his life in prison for his involvement in a robbery and killing of a police officer. So, when my husband bought me his book for Christmas I was curious to see if Moore was able to turn what could be simply a coincidence into an engaging book.

Since both Moores are African-American males, raised in a beleagured part of Baltimore without fathers, yet have taken such different paths, I imagined a socio-economic commentary was most likely going to color much of the telling.  Fortunately, the author spent a lot of time interviewing and getting to know his counter-part and both men are quite likeable.  Moore the author is self-depreciating, humble, and incredibly grateful that his circumstances changed at the right time.  He is well aware that this is in part due to serendipity (in the form of a military school) and is grateful of the individuals who never gave up on him and were willing to make sacrifices so that his life was not.

The other Wes Moore has found a sense of peace through embracing Islam in prison, so although his life is tragic in many ways, the ultimate message of this work is more hopeful than critical.  The Other Wes Moore was impossible to put down, and when I turned the last page I immediately passed it on to my in-laws (who I was spending the holidays with) and believe it would be a great choice for book clubs, too.

Cindy won The Pig and Me, Jo won Throwaway Players, and Kay won South of the Sun!  Congratuations!!

Many great giveaways coming up over the next few months…  Tune in soon!

Name Your Linkby Emma Pearse

Release date: 2012 / 336  pages

Synopsis (from Amazon.com): It was just another day in paradise as Jan and Dave Griffith, along with their blue cattle dog, Sophie, motored out of Mackay Marina for a gorgeous weekend at sea. But when the sky suddenly darkened and the waves turned fierce, the unthinkable happened: Sophie disappeared overboard. Her heartbroken humans couldn’t fathom the loss and could only hope their beloved pet didn’t suffer. But this true cattle dog and devoted best friend wasn’t going to give up that easily—and what followed is a remarkable tale of survival, luck, and persistence.

First line: “It was a warm Sunday evening at the end of March 2009 and the sun was setting over the coral reefs and hundreds of tropical islands dotting Australia’s north Queensland coast.”

Review: On December 10th, my husband took our two dogs out for a run and spooked a deer that was curled up, asleep by our front door.  The dogs took off in hot pursuit and were soon well out of voice range — no collars, new home, barely a year old.  Ten frantic, exhausting hours later, Animal Control helped us connect with a wonderful couple and we were soon reunited with our beloved pups, who are still on “lock-down” consigned to leash walks only, despite our remote 35 acre location, until their new GPS collars arrive in the mail.  I still feel the grief and loss of those 10 ten hours in my bones and am so grateful both dogs are lying at my feet as I write.

Days before the dogs went rogue, I received Sophie: The Incredible True Story of the Castaway Dog in my mailbox from Shelf Awareness and knew from the cover photo of a gorgeous Blue Heeler that I would surely enjoy this memoir.  Little could I have guessed that I would be reading it after my own two dogs had so recently been lost-and-found.

Sophie, an Australian cattle dog often referred to as a “Blue Heeler,” was adopted as a puppy into a dog-loving family in 2005.  When her primary care-giver, Bridgette, left for university a year later, Sophie’s calm demeanor and affection helped The Griffiths adjust to their new “empty nest” and soon became enmeshed in their lives and daily activities, including their love of sailing.  During one sail, Sophie fell overboard, five miles from land, and after frantic hours searching was assumed to have drowned.  Little could the Griffiths have imagined, but Sophie swam her way to two islands and managed to survive for five months before she was captured by a ranger and miraculously reunited with her family.

Sophie is the account of the Griffiths’ experiences, the sightings of Sophie on the island, and the incredible journey before their homecoming.  This memoir is at once an adventure tale, as well as a testament to the bond between humans and their beloved dogs.  Pearse, an Austrailan journalist, has created a compelling tale of hope that is impossible to put down and will soon be transformed into a movie that promises to be inspiring and gorgeous to watch.

I definitely recommend this book to any dog lovers!