Life After Yes by Aidan Donnelley Rowley
Release date: 2010 / 340 pages
Synopsis (from Amazon): Prudence (better known as Quinn) has what many people might think is the perfect life. A wonderful fiance who popped the question in Paris, a fantastic job as a lawyer, a beautiful, perfectly decorated home. But all is not as it appears…
First line: “I’m choking.”
Review: I’m so glad I was not the first in the tour to review Life After Yes and looked forward to reading the other reviews once I had completed my own. I think many — maybe even most — readers will really enjoy Quinn’s heroine journey. She is honest and flawed and desperately wants to be better. She is a privileged New Yorker, desperately grieving her father’s demise from the 9/11 attacks, and hoping her answer to a recent marriage proposal is not a mistake. Her husband-to-be, Sage, is wonderful to experience — kind, loving, yet willing and able to see through Quinn’s insecurities and foibles to the person she might become. Unfortunately, I struggled to give Quinn the same benefit of the doubt…
I knew I was in trouble when the novel started with a dream… the kind that occur while sleeping. While I find my own dreams fascinating (who doesn’t!?), I’m afraid I find others’ dreams a bit tedious, and on page one I hadn’t yet met the dreamer, so my eyes glazed over a bit and I needed to re-read the dream more than once to figure out who the dreamer was and what significance there might be to her dream.
And I’m afraid I never did really connect to Quinn, even after she awoke from her dream. We actually share three significant life events in the past decade — losing a family member suddenly, getting married, and altering our career path – but our reactions were so dissimiliar to all three that I really felt the 13 year age difference between us. One of my college professors stated, “When we read a novel, we read ourselves.” And while I try to maintain a reviewer’s objectivity whenever possible, I do think my reaction to this novel is more a reflection of where I am in my life right now (so happy!), and less about the novel itself.
So, since I am the last on this month’s book tour, I thought I would end my review with a sample of highlights from the other reviewers on tour, to provide a more balanced perspective (please note links to the entire review below):
From Confessions of a Bookaholic:
Quinn was a great character! She was a modern girl who likes her booze – what’s not to love? Besides that, she was a realistic character because her life seemed perfect, but she was struggling as much as any other woman out there. Even though she made some {major} mistakes, she was still a sympathetic character.
From Books Like Breathing:
The characters in Life After Yes were some of the most interesting characters were some of the most interesting that I have come across in my recent reading… I really enjoyed Life After Yes if for nothing more than the characterizations were awesome. I recommend this to anyone looking for a book with really strong characterizations.
From Luxury Reading:
Although Life After Yes tackles some heavy issues such as a parent’s death, reconsidering an impending marriage, engaging in an affair with a past lover, and betraying a friend’s trust, it is still overall an uplifting story. It is not what I consider to be a fluff read; Rowley is very knowledgeable in philosophy and it is apparent in this novel. I absolutely fell in love with her passages on Plato and true love and marriage.
I think this novel might be just perfect for a twenty-something, but didn’t quite hold my attention…
If you are interested in winning a copy, simply leave me a comment and I’ll choose a lucky winner by Saturday!
Here’s the full list of TLC tour stops!
Tuesday, May 18th: Life and Times of a “New” New Yorker
Thursday, May 20th: Confessions of a Bookaholic
Monday, May 24th: Books Like Breathing
Wednesday, May 26th: Luxury Reading
Thursday, May 27th: Rundpinne
Tuesday, June 1st: Crazy for Books
Wednesday, June 2nd: Cindy’s Love of Books
Thursday, June 3rd: Write Meg
Tuesday, June 8th: Heart 2 Heart
Wednesday, June 9th: Thoughts From an Evil Overload
Thursday, June 10th: Book Club Classics!




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I am at this same part in my life and think this book would be an interesting one.
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I tend to question my decisions in life. I think this book is a right fit for me.
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I’m interested in how Quinn sees her life as it is changing, her perspective.
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I think your review is the first that is slightly negative… I wonder if I’d feel the same way since I’m older than 20-something
Guess will have to read it to find out!
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btw – I love your quote “When we read a novel, we read ourselves.” SO true.
I had a similar reading/relating experience with a book I read recently. It’s hard to like a character when her life choices and reactions are so directly opposed to our own, don’t you think? Thanks for sharing the other reviews though!