Sunday Salon: We Need to Talk About Kevin
By Kristen on Aug 17, 2008 in Reviews, The Sunday Salon
We Need to Talk About Kevin by Lionel Shriver
Release date: 2003 / 400 pages
First lines: “Dear Franklin, I’m unsure why one trifling incident this afternoon has moved me to write to you. But since we’ve been separated, I may most miss coming home to deliver the narrative curiosities of my day, the way a cat might lay mice at your feet: the small, humble offerings that couples proffer after foraging in separate backyards.”
Synopsis (from back cover): “Eva never really wanted to be a mother — and certainly not the mother of the unlovable boy who murdered seven of his fellow high school students, a cafeteria worker, and a much-adored teacher who tried to befriend him, all two days before his sixteenth birthday. Now, two years later, it is time for her to come to terms with marriage, career, family, parenthood, and Kevin’s horrific rampage in a series of startingly direct correspondences with her estranged husband, Franklin.
Review: I just finished this novel and am stunned, impressed, devastated and in awe. However, I think I can only recommend it to a small, select group of people! Even more surprising, I had never heard of this novel until two weeks ago.
A client contacted me about creating a custom kit for her book club. However, unlike most of my orders, the client only wanted an analysis of the four main characters and of key passages of my choosing. At first I was nonplussed and felt embarrassed charging money for what she requested; most clients want discussion questions, author background, reviews, menu ideas, vocabulary, bookmarks, etc… However, since the book was 400 pages long and since I am really quite busy with orders right now, I decided to give it a go.
Well, I have learned to trust the judgment of my client! Unpacking the complexity of the characters and finding key passages to support my analysis proved to be an exhilarating challenge and complex journey into the nature of motherhood, as well as the nature of evil. My only disappointment is that I will not be able to sit in on the discussion of the novel!
Answering what seemed, on the surface, to be simple questions (Does the mother love her son? Why does she visit him in prison? ) was deceptively arduous, yet compelling, and I quickly understood why a number of women in the book club were in definite disagreement.
Shriver creates a strikingly ambivalent and unsympathetic narrator who happens to be the mother of a fifteen year old murderer, who happens to be devoid of any redeeming qualities. Normally I would decry the lack of ambiguity in the portrait of the son, but Shriver provides more than enough ambiguity through the parents’ perceptions of their son, and this results in a much more interesting character study.
Shriver is an excellent writer — while the narrative was fast-paced and extremely compelling, the complexity of her syntax forces the reader to be deliberate and thoughtful. I usually read contemporary works at a clip of about a page a minute, but yesterday I spent 6 hours reading 150 pages. While I couldn’t put the novel down, I also couldn’t blow through it. Needless to say, I will be reserving Shriver’s other novels from the library… today.
However, I feel the responsibility to recommend this novel with a few reservations. I would NOT read it while pregnant — seriously. I might not read it if I was concerned about the nature of my child or of my parenting. The subject matter is grim — we know the son has orchestrated a school shooting from the very beginning and the letters serve as an investigation of what may or may not have lead to this horrific act.
One reviewer wrote: “A slow, magnetic descent into hell that is as fascinating as it is disturbing.” This is true. Shriver’s writing and ability to create characters is stunning. At first I thought it may be too much like Picoult’s Nineteen Minutes – which I enjoyed — but We Need to Talk About Kevin is on an entirely different plane…
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I’ve read about this book on several blogs, but I’m still not sure I want to read it! Maybe it’s because I have a 15-year-old son!
SmallWorld Reads | Aug 17, 2008 | Reply
On the other hand, reading this novel would probably make you feel really, really good about your son and your parenting
Kristen | Aug 17, 2008 | Reply
I think it should be read by all. As a teacher I feel so.
Do check out my Sunday Salon posts
SS 1: Review of The Dark Child
SS 2: Musings about books
gautami tripathy | Aug 17, 2008 | Reply
I read this over 2 years ago, and I found it captivating and haunting. The language bothered me at first, but then I felt like it fit. And the way you just get little bits of information at a time just kept me pulled into it. I thought it was incredible.
jaime | Aug 17, 2008 | Reply
Mmm, not sure what box I just filled in your website! I thought I was about to leave a comment but realised I can’t of been when I scrolled down and found the comments instead! Oh well!
Anyway, intriguing review of the book, it’s been on my tbr pile for a very long time, I think you’ve just bumped it up for me, thank you!
Lacer | Aug 17, 2008 | Reply
@Jaime — Yes! It is the sort of book that many things make more sense by the end. I also loved how we are only privvy to the mother’s perspective — and she is so unlikeable… Very intriguing…
@Lacer — The Mr. Linky thing is a bit confusing… but be sure to leave another link once you’ve read and reviewed Kevin!
Kristen | Aug 17, 2008 | Reply
When I finished Kevin, I felt like someone had set off a bomb under me and I was blown to pieces.
debnance | Aug 17, 2008 | Reply
I also hadn’t heard of this book until recently, and after reading your review, I’m even more glad that I’ve selected it for an upcoming reading challenge. Thanks for a great one!
Rebecca @ The Book Lady's Blog | Aug 17, 2008 | Reply
@Rebecca — Please let me know what you thought of it, too! I look forward to reading your review!
@debnance — Well put… I felt the same way…
Kristen | Aug 17, 2008 | Reply